關於自我的謊言Lies about Self
Lies about self
关 于自我 的 一 些 谎 言
JD mentioned that we are finishing a series today and I just want to acknowledge the fact that there may be some people in the room that because it's Mother's Day this is your first time perhaps in church maybe since last Mother's Day which is totally fine by the way if that's the case a quick tip if you are just a Mother's Day Church a tender just a quick tip especially if your mum is not here make sure you get a selfie next to the gray City Sign after the service and subtly post it on your Instagram and tag your mum with a tribute to your mum saying thank you Mum I was in church today even if she lived somewhere else around the world it'll do you a world of good all right now all the mums that are in the room if your child is with you I just gave the whole thing away okay but go ahead and take that photo next to the GraceCity Sign anyway I think it'll be fantastic.
JD提到，我们今天要完成一个系列，我只想承认一个事实，即房间里可能有一些人，因为今天是母亲节，这是你第一次来教堂，也许是自上一个母亲节以来，这是完全没有问题的，顺便说一下，如果你只是一个母亲节教会的温柔，只是一个快速的提示，特别是如果你的妈妈不在这里，确保你得到一个自拍旁边的灰色城市标志。灰色的城市标志，并巧妙地将其发布在你的社交平台上，并标记你的妈妈，向你的妈妈致敬，说谢谢你，妈妈，我今天在教堂里，即使她住在世界其他地方，这将对你有好处。
If you're familiar with Netflix you'll be familiar with what I'm about to say we're in the end of a series okay and I want to encourage you if you weren't here for the beginning of this series Lies We Believe or any part ofthis series some of what we're going to talk about today may not make a lot of sense okay so it's kind of like when I come in at the end of a Netflix series with my family and I sit down on the couch and I start asking some people are nodding you know where this is going I start asking all my kids questions about characters in the series and they say shut up Dad just watch all the other episodes
如果你熟悉Netflix，你就会熟悉我要说的话，我们是在一个系列的结尾，我想鼓励你，如果你没有在这里参加这个系列的开头《我们相信的谎言》或这个系列的任何部分，我们今天要谈的一些东西可能没有什么意义，所以这有点像当我我和我的家人在Netflix系列的最后，我坐在沙发上，开始问一些人，你知道这是怎么回事，我开始问我所有的孩子关于系列中的人物的问题，他们说闭嘴，爸爸，看所有的其他情节。
I want to encourage you if you haven't seen the other episodes of this series go back online and catch up on them because the first particular episode of this series JD did a great job unpacking the big idea of the series and the big idea is this that we are actually whether you're a follower of Jesus or maybe this is your first time in church ever or first time Church in a long time we're actually in a bit of a battle our lives are a bit of a war and the battlefield is actually our minds that's where the battle is taking place and so this series Lies We believe we've been unpacking a whole bunch of things that we believe that are oftentimes lies.
我想鼓励你，如果你没有看过这个系列的其他剧集，就上网看看，因为这个系列的第一集，JD很好地解开了这个系列的大概念，这个大概念就是：我们实际上是，无论你是耶稣的追随者，还是你第一次到教堂，或者是第一次 我们实际上是在进行一场战斗，我们的生活有点像一场战争，而战场实际上是我们的思想，这就是战斗发生的地方，所以这个系列的谎言我们相信，我们已经解开了一大堆我们相信的东西，这些东西往往是谎言。
JD did a great job of explaining the enemies on this battlefield are really three big enemies the World the Flesh and the devil and if that doesn't mean anything to you those three things go back and watch episode one all right I'm not gonna unpack the whole thing this morning but today we're going to dive into the last of the series Lies We believe about ourselves.
JD很好地解释了这个战场上的敌人实际上是三个大的敌人，即世界、肉体和魔鬼，如果这对你来说没有任何意义的话，请回去看第一集。
但今天我们将深入探讨该系列的最后一集《我们相信自己的谎言》
But before we dive in I'd like to play a quick game with all of you in the audience today and ifyou're watching online you can participate as well it might be awkward if you're in a cafe orsomething but I'm going to ask you all to stand with me if you're able to would you do me a favor would you stand and we're gonna play a game the game is called face-off okay and this Face-Off is the brand Edition okay so what I'm going to do is I'm going to bring an image up onto the screen and the way that it works is you are going to pick which side of the image you think is real and face that direction so if you think the real side of the image is on this side of the screen then you're going to face that wall if you think the real part of the image is on that side of the screen then you're going to face this wall now this is not a game for certain Generations because this is a game of elimination not everyone gets a trophy okay
I'm not going to pick on any generation in particular but if you're a part of one of those that love getting the trophy at the end we're actually going to try and get down to just one person in the room okay so I'm going to give you a freebie though this first one is a warm-up this is just gonna get everybody in the game okay
但在我们开始之前，我想和所有的观众玩一个简单的游戏，如果你在网上观看，你也可以参加，如果你在咖啡馆或其他地方，可能会很尴尬，但我要请大家和我站在一起，如果你能做到，你会帮我一个忙，你会站起来，我们要玩一个游戏，这个游戏叫做对峙，好的，我现在要做的是把一张图片放到屏幕上，游戏的方式是你要选择图片的哪一面是真实的，然后面对那个方向，如果你认为图片的真实面在屏幕的这一面，那么你就要面对那面墙，如果你认为图片的真实部分在屏幕的那一面，那么你就要面对这面墙。这不是一个适合某些世代的游戏，因为这是一个淘汰赛，不是每个人都能得到奖杯的，好吧，
我不打算特别挑剔任何世代，但如果你是那些喜欢在最后得到奖杯的人中的一员，我们实际上要尝试让房间里只剩下一个人。 这只是要让大家进入游戏。
You're going to face the direction that you think is the real brand as I bring it up on the screen let's go ahead and bring it up on the screen all right the first one do you think it's the gray one that's in this direction or do you think it's the red one in this direction you've got about five seconds to pick if you're still facing me at the end you'll be eliminated as well all right again not everyone gets a trophy all right and the correct answer is the gray one the gray one is the correct answer I'm old enough to have had my very own pair of Jordan Ones back in 1985 my older brother bought me a pair of actual Jordans if I still had them today I wouldn't be standing on this stage speaking to you I'd be doing something else with my life all right the next one is an image of either a diamond a real one or a fake one now I hope that nobody bought their mum a diamond for Mother's Day and is about to find out that they got duped into a cubic zirconium I think it's called all right let's go ahead face Direction you think is real if you think it's this way or that way go ahead this is for all the marbles we're actually going to eliminate people that was a warm-up round before all right go ahead and reveal the correct one everyone that is facing that direction remains standing everybody else can be seated all right if you're in oh my goodness this side of the crowd don't buy jewelry okay whatever you do they will trick you very easily all right the next one here's a Famous Brand
你要面对你认为是真正品牌的方向，当我把它显示在屏幕上时，让我们继续把它显示在屏幕上，好的，第一个你认为是这个方向的灰色的，还是你认为是这个方向的红色的？还是这个方向的红色 你有5秒钟的时间选择 如果你最后还面对着我，你也会被淘汰 好了，不是每个人都能得到奖杯 好了，正确答案是灰色的 灰色的是正确答案 我已经很老了，在1985年就有了自己的乔丹鞋 我的哥哥给我买了一双真正的乔丹鞋 如果我今天还拥有它们，我就不会站在这个舞台上跟你们说话了 我就不会站在这个舞台上跟你们讲话了 好了，下一个是钻石的图像，是真的还是假的 我希望没有人在母亲节给妈妈买了钻石，却发现自己被骗成了立方氧化锆，我想这叫钻石 好了，让我们继续面对你认为是真的方向，如果你认为是这样或那样，就继续，这是为了所有的弹珠，我们实际上要淘汰的人，这是一个热身。 好的，请揭开正确的面纱 面向那个方向的人保持站立，其他人可以坐下来，好的如果你在天啊，这一边的人群中，不要买珠宝 好吧，不管你怎么做，他们都会很容易骗到你 好了，下一个，这是一个著名的品牌
maybe you bought your mom something from Gucci this Mother's Day I don't know maybe you didn't which one do you think is the correct the real label which side man they look very close we've got some people down the front here that I think are Gucci experts one person's like showing oh this is the U is thinner than the other you okay the correct answer is up on the screen this Direction all right if you are facing that way you have been eliminated all right here's another great gift for Mother's Day by the way all the mums in the room are thrilled about this this little game this morning a great gift for Mother's Day is a beautiful handbag let's bring it up on the screen Louis Vuitton maybe somebody I've been duped just so you know I bought a cheap version of one of these one time in New York City and found out later that it was not the real deal all right which one do you think it is face the direction if you're still facing me you're going to be eliminated by the way you got to face left or right all right you've got about three seconds two one and we'll reveal the correct answer okay so everyone facing this direction you're still standing we've still got quite a few okay the next one this may be a gift for Mom or it could be a gift for Dad it could be a gift for anyone really but this is the one that I think people get tricked on the fake ones the most all right we'll bring up the Rolex watch on the screen okay all right which one do you think is the fake one which one is the real one you have about six seconds left go ahead and face that direction five four three two one and the correct answer is the one with a little bit of gold okay how we doing we've still got we've still got a handful of people I see some up the back there from the uh everyone gets a trophy generation that is still standing which is great I love that all right last one I love fake plants okay I love them because they're so easy to care for which one do you think is the real one some people are looking at the screen going is there any difference Maybe go ahead and turn in the direction you think is the real one face the direction you think is the real one you have about five seconds left to decide five four three two one and the correct answer is they are both fake which means I don't have to give any prize away actually actually no JDthere is a gentleman over here would you stand up sir yes you would you mind standing no no the one behind you good try though to get that fake no it's this gentleman over here he stood there the longest because he knew they were both fake I could tell so you my friend get a a prize of a cup of coffee or whatever you'd like to drink in the cafe after the service not one of the free ones by the way one of the pricey ones okay the really expensive five dollar kind I'm gonna get you one of those hey here's what we're doing
也许你在这个母亲节给你妈妈买了Gucci的东西 我不知道，也许你没有，你认为哪一个才是正确的，真正的标签是哪一面，伙计，他们看起来很接近 我们有一些人在前面，我认为他们是 Gucci的专家 一个人好像在展示哦，这是U比另一个薄，好的，正确答案在屏幕上。正确答案在屏幕上，这个方向 好的，如果你朝向那个方向，你就被淘汰了 好的，这里有另一个母亲节的好礼物 顺便说一下，房间里所有的妈妈都对这个小游戏感到兴奋 今天早上，母亲节的好礼物是一个漂亮的手提包，让我们把它放在屏幕上 路易-威登也许有人我被骗了，我在纽约买了一个廉价版的，后来发现不是真的 好，你认为是哪一个，面对这个方向，如果你还面对我，你就会被淘汰，你要面对左边或右边 好，你有三秒钟时间，两个一，我们会揭晓 好的，那么面对这个方向的人，你还站着，我们还有很多 好的，下一个，这可能是给妈妈的礼物，也可能是给爸爸的礼物，也可能是给任何人的礼物，但这是我认为人们被假的骗得最多的一个 好的，我们会在屏幕上显示劳力士手表 好的，哪一个 你认为哪块是假的哪块是真的 你还有六秒钟的时间，朝那个方向走，五四三二一，正确答案是有一点金子的那块 好的，我们还在做，我们还有一些人，我看到后面有一些人，每个人都有一个奖杯，这一代人还在坚持。这很好，我很喜欢，好吧，最后一个，我喜欢假的植物，因为它们很容易打理，你认为哪一个是真的？ 有些人看着屏幕，有什么区别吗？ 也许继续，朝你认为是真的方向转，面对你认为是真的方向，你还有五秒钟时间决定。
5、4、3、2、1，正确答案是它们都是假的
正确答案是它们都是假的 这意味着我不需要送出任何奖品 事实上，不，JD那边有位先生，你可以站起来吗，先生？ 是的，你可以站起来吗？ 不，不，你后面的那位，很好，但要得到那个假的，不，是这边的这位先生，他站在那里的时间最长，因为 因为他知道这两个都是假的，我看得出来 所以你，我的朋友，你可以得到一个奖品 一杯咖啡或任何你想在服务结束后在咖啡馆喝的东西 顺便说一句，不是免费的那种，是昂贵的那种 好吧，非常昂贵的五美元那种，我给你拿一个 嘿，这是我们要做的事情
Today we're talking about Lies We believe about ourselves and I want to say something up front just like we can get duped by a brand we can get duped into thinking that something we think about ourselves is true when it's actually not true and here's what we've been saying during this series we've been saying this that in order to overcome these lies that we believe we need to First be able to identify the lie a good friend of mine once said it this way he says you've got to name it so you can tame it if you can't name it then it's impossible to be able to tame that lie so we've got to identify the LIE then we said this that behind every lie is actually some sort of deceptive idea some sort of deception is behind that lie and we've got to identify and be able to articulate what is then deception behind the LIE and then finally we haveto replace the lie with the truth now if you're not a church person if you're watching online and you stumbled across this because you're trying to find some church service to impress your mum for Mother's Day and you're now watching great City online I don't know how you landed online or in the room today or what you think about God but here's what I know to be true you may not believe in him but he believes in you he believes in you and he believes some truth that we're going to unpack this morning that even if you're not sure that God exists I'm convinced you will hope that he exists because of the truths he believes about you here's what I've discovered over the years I've discovered that most of the time The Lies We believe about ourselves they oftentimes come from one original source in fact if you were to talk to a psychologist or a counselor somebody in the mental health profession they would agree they would say that most of the lies people believe about themselves originate from the same place my wife and I when we hear each other talking about our lives and maybe even sharing one of these lies with each other or maybe we overhear someone else talking about a lie that they believe about themselves we have this little phrase that we say to each other it's a little acronym we say to each other: FOOIE we sayFOOIEy and it stands for this simple phrase family of origin impacts everything now when I say family of origin impacts everything I'm not saying that every lie that we pick up along the way about ourselves necessarily comes from our specific family of origin it may come from your extended family it may have come from an aunt or an uncle or a cousin or perhaps it even came from your childhood because you are a part of a school and a teacher said something to you or a classmate said something to or perhaps you were part of a sporting club or an association like the scouts most of the lies that we believe come from our childhood and that's where we pick them up along the way here's what I've discovered though about these lies.
今天我们讨论的是关于我们相信自己的谎言，我想先说一下，就像我们会被品牌欺骗一样，我们也会被欺骗，认为我们对自己的看法是真实的，但实际上并非如此。在这个系列中，我们一直在说，为了克服我们相信的这些谎言，我们首先需要能够识别谎言，
我的一个好朋友曾经这样说过，他说你必须为它命名，这样你才能驯服它，如果你不能为它命名，那么就不可能能够驯服它。驯服谎言，所以我们要识别谎言，然后我们说，每个谎言背后都有某种欺骗性的想法，谎言背后有某种欺骗，我们要识别并能够阐明谎言背后的欺骗是什么，
最后我们要用真理取代谎言。
现在，如果你不是一个教会的人，如果你在网上观看，你偶然发现了这个，因为你想找到一些教会的服务，以便在母亲节给你妈妈留下好印象，你现在正在网上观看恩典之城，我不知道你是如何在网上或今天在房间里，或者你对上帝有什么看法，但这里是 你可能不相信他，但他
相信你，他相信你，他相信一些我们今天早上要解开的真理，即使你不确定上帝是否存在，我相信你会希望他存在，因为他相信关于你的真理。多年来我发现，大多数时候，我们相信的关于自己的谎言往往来自一个原始的来源，事实上，如果你与心理学家或心理咨询师交谈，他们会同意，他们会说，人们相信的关于自己的大多数谎言都来自同一个地方，当我们听到对方谈论我们的生活，甚至可能与对方分享这些谎言之一，或者也许我们听到别人谈论他们相信自己的谎言，我们有这个小短语，我们对彼此说，这是一个
我们有一个小的缩写，我们互相说 FOOI，我们说 FOOI，它代表这个简单的短语。
现在我说原生家庭影响一切，并不是说我们一路走来关于自己的每一个谎言都来自我们特定的原生家庭。我并不是说我们一路走来对自己的每一个谎言都来自于我们特定的原生家庭，它可能来自于你的大家庭。它可能来自于你的大家庭，可能来自于你的姑姑、叔叔或表哥，甚
至可能来自于你的童年。因为你是学校的一员，一个老师对你说了些什么，或者一个同学对你说了些什么，或者 也许你是某个体育俱乐部或某个协会的成员，比如童子军。我们相信的大多数谎言都来自于我们的童年，这也是我们接受谎言的地方。我在这里发现了关于这些谎言的情况
Lies we were told oftentimes become labels that we hold
lies we were told become labels that we hold and we hold on to them for a long period of time I was thinking about the popular lies that oftentimes people are told and uh I actually wrote them down on some labels one of the labels that I've heard over the years from people is that they were they were told that they weren't necessarily pretty and so they've carried this label of being ugly around with them another one that I've heard over the years and that I've even experienced myself is that I wasn't the smartest kid in the class and so I carried this label of being a little bit dumb with me throughout my life perhaps that's your story one of the ones that I've heard from a lot of people is this label from a lie that they were useless that they wouldn't amount to much that they weren't worth anything in fact I heard one person say to me that their dad told them repeatedly that they weren't worth the salt that he put on his food because of that they've carried a label of being useless and worthless their whole life here's another common one being unlovable unlovable it's impossible that I'll be loved perhaps because somebody didn't love me once so maybe I've had a couple of failed relationships therefore I'm unlovable to everyone here's another one that I hear oftentimes it's this label that I have to fake it
I have to fake it because if people knew the real me if they really knew what I was like if they really understood what I've done they wouldn't love me they wouldn't accept me so I have to fake it here's another one that I've heard
I've heard people carry the label of flirt because sometime when they were a teenager 30 40
50 years ago they one time had a friend or a classmate say to them oh you're a flirt and so
they just carried that label with them throughout their life here's another one because I failed
once or twice I'm forever a failure and then finally this is the one that I probably hear most
often and if you and I were sitting down having a cup of coffee or a cup of tea together I
would admit to you that this one of not being enough is probably the label that I carry most
deeply personally to be very vulnerable and very transparent with you I have this thing in my
mind that I carry with me that I'm not doing enough or I'm not being quite enough or I'm not
quite good enough fill in the blank I'm just not enough these are labels that come from lies
and
The Lies We were told they oftentimes become the labels that we hold I want to just bring up
a few of these that are that are quite common I find this one of I'm unlovable
let's talk about this lie of being unlovable what's the deception behind that lie from from time
to time when I'm having conversations with people people will say to me well Jason I failed
at a relationship or there was a person in my life that didn't love me or maybe there were a
few people that didn't love me and so because of that I just came to the conclusion that I'm
unlovable that's the deception because one person didn't love me therefore I'm completely
unlovable here's another common one I'm a failure because I failed at one thing this is the
deception or maybe I failed a couple of times or because I have a history of failing at
something therefore I'm always going to be a failure my last year of University the week
before my wife and I got married, I finally passed anatomy and physiology too I failed it three
times at University and I finally got past it that last time a week before we got married and
guess what nobody's ever checked my past or fail of anatomy and physiology on any job I've
ever had see what we do because I failed once or I failed twice
我们被告知的谎言常常成为我们持有的标签
我们被告知的谎言成为我们持有的标签，我们长期持有 我在想那些流行的谎言 我在想人们经
常被告知的谎言，我把它们写在了一些标签上。我把它们写在一些标签上，其中一个标签是我
多年来从人们那里听到的，他们被 他们被告知，他们不一定漂亮，所以他们一直带着这个丑陋
的标签。另一个是我多年来听到的，甚至我自己也经历过的，就是我不是班上最聪明的孩子
我不是班上最聪明的孩子，所以我一生都带着这个有点笨的标签，也许这就是你的故事。我从
很多人那里听到的一个故事是，这个标签来自一个谎言 说他们一无是处，说他们不会有什么
成就，说他们一文不值。
我听到一个人对我说，他们的父亲反复告诉他们，他们不值得他在食物上放盐。因为这一点，
他们就背上了无用和无价值的标签。这是另一个常见的问题，就是不被人爱，不被人爱，我不
可能被爱。也许是因为有人曾经不爱我，所以也许我有过几次失败的关系，所以我对每个人都
不可爱。这是我经常听到的另一种说法，就是这个标签，我必须要假装。
我必须假装，因为如果人们知道真实的我 如果他们真的知道我是什么样的人 如果他们真的了
解我所做的事情 他们就不会爱我，就不会接受我，所以我必须假装，这是我听到的另一个例
子
我听说有人带着调情的标签，因为在30、40、50年前的某个时候，他们还是个青少年，有一次
有一个朋友或同学 有一次，一个朋友或同学对他们说，哦，你是个调情的人，于是他们就把这
个标签带在身上，一直到现在。这是另一个标签，因为我失败过一两次，我永远是个失败者。最
后，这是我可能最常听到的一句话，如果你和我坐在一起 如果你和我坐下来一起喝杯咖啡或
茶，我会向你承认，这个 "不够好 "的标签可能是我最常听到的。如果你和我一起坐下来喝杯
咖啡或茶，我会承认，这个 "不够 "可能是我个人最深的标签。说句非常脆弱和非常透明的话，
我的脑海里有这样一个东西，我带着它，我做得不够好，或者我做得不够好。做得不够好，或
者我做得不够好，或者我做得不够好，填空，我就是不够好。这些都是来自谎言的标签。
我们被告知的谎言，它们往往成为我们持有的标签。我只想提出几个很常见的标签，我发现这
个 "我不可爱 "的标签。
让我们来谈谈这个不可爱的谎言，这个谎言背后的欺骗性是什么？当我与人交谈时，人们会时
不时地对我说，杰森，我在一段关系中失败了，或者在我的生活中出现了一个人。或者我的生
活中有一个人不爱我，或者可能有几个人不爱我。所以我就得出结论，我是不爱的 这就是欺骗
，因为有一个人不爱我，所以我完全不爱。这是另一种常见的情况，我是个失败者，因为我在
一件事上失败了，这是 这就是欺骗，也许我失败过几次，或者因为我有一段失败的历史。因此
，我总是会成为一个失败者 我大学的最后一年，在我和我妻子结婚的前一周 我终于也通过了
解剖学和生理学，我在大学里失败了三次，最后一次是在我们结婚前的一个星期，你猜怎么着
，没有人在我的任何工作中检查我的过去或解剖学和生理学的失败，看看我们做什么，因为我
失败了一次或两次。
I carry this label of being a failure that I'm not quite good enough the last one I have to fake it
I mentioned before sometimes because of the past that we have well because of things that
people don't know about us we think if they knew who I really was and if they knew what I
had done they wouldn't accept me so because of that I have to fake it
I want to invite you to take out that label that was on your seat this morning and on the back
of the label there's a little glossy piece of paper I want you to write down I want to give you a
moment right now with the pen that you were given I want you to write down the lie or the
label that you hold perhaps from something you were told
in your past that came to your mind this morning as I was talking about these labels and
these lies I just want you to have an a moment of honesty with yourself and just write down
you know what I if I'm being honest with myself he is a lie or a label that I hold on to perhaps
like me it's the not enough one I want you just to take a moment we're going to pause and I
want you to identify on the back of that label not on the front but on the back what's the lie or
the label that came to your mind today as we've been talking about this you don't have to
write it down but while you're identifying that lie or that label why don't you consider what
what do you think is the deception behind that lie is it like me because you weren't the
smartest kid in the class you're like well I'm not smart enough which by the way if you study
any sort of intelligence and psychology all the book smarts they say have nothing to do with
people of wisdom later on in life but because of that I thought I wasn't enough what's the
deception behind that lie
all right you can turn your attention back up here for a moment if you're watching online and
you've been writing down in a journal or something I want to ask everyone this question
here's the question who has the right to label you this is a powerful question who has the
right to label you when I was a kid growing up, I as a I was a huge basketball fan and played
a lot of basketball and there was one particular basketball that I always loved to buy or to be
given as a gift
I don't know if you know much about basketball but the brand on this particular basketball
started with the letter s can anybody identify Spalding Spalding was the brand on the
basketball and the reason I love Spalding is because I was a huge fan of the NBA and in the
NBA they happened to play with Spalding basketballs this Spalding basketball actually helps
us to understand the answer to this question who has the right to label us the answer to that
question is really twofold the first part of that question the answer is this anyone that has
created something or manufactured something has the right to label it Spalding had the right
to label the basketball because they were the manufacturers of the basketball what I'm about
to say may divide the crowds some people watching online you might turn off the video at
this point but I carry an iPhone and some of you are like oh no he's one of those apple guys
Apple has put their logo on the back of every single iPhone on the planet why because they
manufactured it they have the right to Brand it they have the right to label it because they
manufactured it this question of who has the right to label us is actually a question that has
been going on throughout all of humanity it's an Ancient Ancient question and so I want to
take us back to an ancient poem to help us understand what does this look like for Humanity
sure you understand it from an iPhone perspective or from a basketball perspective the
manufacturer has the right to label something because they manufactured it but Jason what
about Humanity who has the right to label Humanity.
我带着失败的标签，认为自己还不够好 最后一点，我必须要假装，我之前提到过，有时候因为
我们的过去 以及人们不了解我们的事情，我们认为 如果他们知道我是谁，如果他们知道我做
过的事情 他们就不会接受我了，所以因为这个原因，我不得不假装。
我想请你拿出今天早上放在你座位上的标签，在标签的背面有一张光亮的小纸片。我想让你
写下来，我想给你一点时间，用给你的笔写下来。我希望你们写下谎言或标签。你所持有的谎
言或标签，也许来自于你过去被告知的一些事情
今天早上我在谈论这些标签和谎言时，你脑海中浮现的谎言或标签。这些谎言，我只是想让你
对自己有一个诚实的时刻 写下你知道我是什么，如果我对自己诚实的话 他是一个谎言或一个
我坚持的标签 也许就像我一样，它是一个不够的标签，我希望你花点时间，我们要暂停一下
我想让你在这个标签的背面辨认一下，不是在正面，而是在背面 在我们今天讨论这个问题时，
你脑海中浮现的谎言或标签是什么？一直在谈论这个问题 你不必把它写下来，但在你识别这
个谎言或标签的时候 你为什么不考虑一下，你认为这个谎言背后的欺骗是什么？谎言的背后
是像我一样 因为你不是班上最聪明的孩子，你就说我不够聪明。顺便说一下，如果你研究任何
一种智力和心理学，所有的书本上的聪明才智 他们说，书本上的聪明才智与人们日后的智慧
毫无关系，但正因为如此，我认为我不够聪明。这谎言背后的欺骗性是什么？
好吧，你可以把注意力转回到这里，如果你在网上看，你一直在写日记或其他东西，我想问大
家这个问题，这是个问题，谁有权给你贴标签，这是一个强大的问题，谁有权给你贴标签，当我
还是个孩子的时候，我是一个巨大的篮球迷，打了很多篮球，有一个特别的篮球 有一个特别的
篮球，我总是喜欢买或者作为礼物送给别人。
我不知道你是否了解篮球，但这个特别的篮球上的品牌是以字母s开头的，有人能认出
Spalding Spalding是篮球上的品牌，我喜欢Spalding的原因是我是NBA的超级球迷，在NBA他
们碰巧用Spalding篮球打球，这个Spalding篮球实际上帮助我们理解这个问题的答案。这个问
题的答案是双重的，第一部分的答案是，任何创造了某种东西或制造了某种东西的人都有权
给它贴上标签，斯伯丁有权给篮球贴标签，因为他们是篮球的制造商。但我带着iPhone，你们
中的一些人就会说，哦，不，他是那些苹果公司的人，苹果公司把他们的标志贴在地球上每一
个iPhone的背面，为什么，因为他们制造了它，他们有权给它贴上品牌，他们有权给它贴上标
签，因为他们制造了它，这个关于谁有权给我们贴标签的问题其实是一个一直存在的问题。所
以我想把我们带回一首古诗来帮助我们理解这对人类来说是什么样子的，当然你可以从
iPhone的角度或者从篮球的角度来理解，制造商有权利给某样东西贴上标签，因为他们制造
了它，但是杰森，人类呢，谁有权利给人类贴标签。
the third king of Israel a guy named David King David was a prolific poem writer he was a
just a prolific poet and many of his poems have been set to music and then they were
collected and put into a book called The Psalms and if you were to grab a Bible and maybe
you're new to the Bible and if you were to open it almost directly in the middle if you were to
put it in half you'd find the Psalms and in one of his most famous Psalms one of his most
famous poems he actually answers the question who has the right to label us leading up to
the answer to this question though there's this great great paragraph about God's presence
in our life being everywhere I love this it explains that God's presence is always with us no
matter where we go he's always with us and it's such an incredible promise to hang on to
and then David unpacks this question and answers the question who has the right to label us
let's take a look at Psalm 139 we're going to bring it up on the screen he says these words
he's talking to God in his journal he says
God for you created my inmost being
you knit me together in my mother's womb on Mother's Day as I'm reading that line
you knit me together in my mother's room all I can imagine what comes to my mind
is my grandmother or maybe that Aunt that you had sitting on the couch knitting away doing
their needlework and they made it look so easy do you remember they made it look so easy
until you picked up the needles and they started teaching you how to put things around the
needles and push them and you realize this is a very complex art
it's not that simple David says God you knit me together in my mother's womb he goes on to
say I praise you because I am keywords fearfully and wonderfully made your works are
wonderful I know them full well here's what David identified David identified that we human
beings are incredibly complex beings incredibly complex beings in fact we could spend
hours here today going through all of the facts about humanity and how complex humans
are David knew it full well and then he identifies what God labels us as don't miss this if
you've been trying to figure out how many hanging lights are on the stage behind me you've
been trying to count them lean in because this is key just like Spalding put their brand on the
basketball here's what the creator of the universe Brands you as he says you are wonderful
you are wonderful you don't have to fake it you're not useless you're not not enough you are
wonderful that is the label that the creator of the universe gives to you.
以色列的第三个国王，一个叫大卫的人，大卫王是一个多产的诗歌作家，他是一个多产的诗人
，他的许多诗被谱成音乐，然后被收集起来，写成一本书，叫做《诗篇》，如果你拿一本圣经，也
许你是第一次读圣经，如果你打开它，几乎直接在中间，如果你把它放在一半，你会发现《诗
篇》，在他最有名的诗篇之一，他最有名的诗篇，实际上回答了一个问题，谁有权利给我们贴标
签？在这个问题的答案之前，有一段关于上帝在我们生命中无处不在的伟大段落，我喜欢这段
话，它解释了上帝的存在总是与我们同在，无论我们去哪里，他总是与我们同在，这是一个令
人难以置信的承诺，让我们坚持下去，然后大卫解开了这个问题，回答了谁有权给我们贴标签
的问题，让我们看看诗篇139，我们要把它放在屏幕上，他说这些话，他在日记中对上帝说话，
他说
上帝，因为你创造了我的内心世界
在母亲节这天，你在我母亲的子宫里把我编织在一起，我正在读这句话
你在我母亲的房间里把我编织在一起，我所能想到的是
是我的祖母，或者是你的那个阿姨，坐在沙发上编织着他们的针线活。他们做得很轻松，你还
记得吗，他们做得很轻松，直到你拿起针，他们开始教你如何把东西放在周围。他们开始教你
如何把东西放在针的周围并推动它们，你才意识到这是一种非常复杂的艺术。
不是那么简单的 大卫说，上帝，你在我母亲的子宫里把我编织在一起 他继续说，我赞美你，因
为我是键词，你的作品是奇妙的，我很清楚 这是大卫确定的，大卫确定我们人类是非常复杂的
生物，非常复杂的生物 事实上，我们今天可以在这里花几个小时来回顾所有关于人类的事实，
以及人类有多复杂 大卫很清楚，然后他指出了 如果你想知道我身后的舞台上有多少盏吊灯，
你就不要错过这个，因为这很关键，就像斯伯丁把他们的品牌放在篮球上一样，这是宇宙的创
造者给你贴的标签，因为他说你很出色，你很出色，你不必假装，你不是一无是处，你不是不
够好，你很出色，这是宇宙的创造者给你的标签。
there's a second part to this question to answer the question who has a right to label us and
the second part is this when I used to buy a Spalding basketball as a child or my parents
would gift one to me what was the first thing you think my mother told me to do with that
basketball put your name on it my mom Knew Too Well that I had left many basketballs
down at the basketball court or at basketball practice or at school and so the first thing my
mother told me when we purchased a basketball she told me to put my name on the
basketball not only does a manufacturer have the right to label us but the purchaser has the
right to label you as well not only the one that created you but the one that purchased you
has the right to label you
I love the way that that Paul describes the fact that we as Humanity have been
purchased he says it this way he says you have been bought with a price and the price was
the blood of Jesus
Christ my Spalding basketballs they might have cost 39.95 or maybe 49.95 maybe an
expensive one would have been 79.95 when I was a kid I know they're much more
expensive today I'm dating myself but when it comes to you as a human being one of the
earliest followers of Jesus he describes it this way he says you have been bought with a
price and the price was the blood of Jesus Christ him everything which goes back to how
much he thinks you are worth that basketball I thought it was worth maybe 40 50 bucks you
as a human being the god of the universe thought you were worth so much that he gave his
only son Jesus so that he could purchase you and make you part of his eternal family so
who has the right to label us the manufacturer the god of the universe says that you are
wonderful you've been fearfully and wonderfully made and the purchaser also has the right
to label you and we've learned that the purchase price was the blood the precious blood of
Jesus this morning now listen to the way the purchaser describes you as a human being in
Ephesians chapter 2 we're going to bring it up on the screen it says these words
这个问题还有第二部分 为了回答这个问题，谁有权利给我们贴标签，第二部分是这样的，当我
小时候经常买一个斯伯丁篮球，或者我的父母会送我一个。小时候买了一个斯伯丁篮球，或者
我的父母会送一个给我 你认为我母亲让我对那个篮球做的第一件事是什么？在上面写上你的
名字，我妈妈很清楚，我把许多篮球留在了 我妈妈很清楚，我把许多篮球留在了篮球场、篮球
训练场或学校，所以我妈妈告诉我的第一件事就是 她告诉我，当我们购买篮球时，要把我的名
字写在上面。她告诉我在篮球上写上我的名字，不仅制造商有权利给我们贴上标签 而且购买
者也有权利给你贴标签 不仅创造你的人，而且购买你的人也有权给你贴标签。
我喜欢保罗描述的方式，即我们作为人类是被购买的。
他是这样说的，他说你们是被买来的 他是这样说的，他说你们是用价格买来的，这个价格就是
耶稣的血。
我的Spalding篮球可能要39.95美元，或者49.95美元，或者一个昂贵的篮球要79.95美元。
昂贵的一个是79. 95元，当我还是个孩子的时候，我知道它们现在要贵得多，我在自欺欺人，
但当谈到你作为一个人时，耶稣最早的追随者之一是这样描述的，他说你是用价格买来的，价
格是耶稣基督的血。他可以买下你，让你成为他永恒家庭的一部分，所以谁有权给我们贴标签
，制造商宇宙之神说你很出色，你被造得令人敬畏和奇妙，购买者也有权给你贴标签，我们已
经知道购买的代价是耶稣的宝血，今天早上听购买者是如何描述你这个人的，在以弗所书第
二章，我们要把它放在屏幕上，上面写着这样的话
For it is by God's grace that you have been saved through faith. It is not the result of
your own efforts, but God's gift, so that no one can boast about it. Ephesians 2:8-9
你们得救是本乎恩，也因着信。这并不是出于自己，乃是神所赐的； 9 也不是出于行为，
免得有人自夸。 以弗所书 2:8-9
he sets it up so that we understand that none of us none of us would have the ability to
purchase ourselves there's no chance that we could purchase ourselves only bythe gift of
grace through the blood of Jesus can we be purchased then listen to the description that
Paul shares that the purchaser gives to us he says for we are God's handiwork
my mind goes back to the grandmother or the aunt knitting God's handiwork created in
Christ Jesus I love this to do good works which God prepared in advance for us to do so
when we think about these labels these lies that we're told that become labels we hold that
we carry around with us who has the right to label you who has the right to label you
I want to suggest this morning whether you've been following Jesus a long time or maybe
you're just exploring it for the first time the manufacturer and the purchaser is the only one
who has the right to label you and the labels that he has given you are wonderful and
masterpiece wonderful handiwork of God you are his masterpiece the person who has the
right to label you that's what he says about you here's what I want to invite you to do I want
to invite you to grab that that label again that you wrote something on the back of and I want
to invite you to replace the word that you put or the words you put on the back of the label I
want to invite you to replace it with what God the manufacturer your purchaser says about
you the label he gives you and maybe it's going to be like my label instead of not enough on
the back on the front of my label it now says enough because of Jesus
maybe yours said dumb now the front of your label could say something like wise because of
him I don't know what the front of your label is going to say but we've got to reply replace
these lies that we've believed that turn into labels that we hold with the truth of what God
says about you one of my favorite author is a guy named Henry Nowin and his favorite quote
of Mine by far one that I repeat to myself every single day he says this about labels he says
this spiritual identity.
他为了让我们明白，我们没有一个人 我们没有人有能力购买自己，我们没有机会购买自己，只
有通过耶稣的血，通过恩典的礼物，我们才能被购买。他说因为我们是上帝的杰作
我的脑海中浮现出祖母或婶婶在编织上帝在基督耶稣里创造的手工制品。我喜欢这句话，做神
事先为我们准备好的善事。所以，当我们想到这些标签时，我们被告知的这些谎言，成为我们
持有的标签，我们随身携带的标签。谁有权利给你贴标签 谁有权利给你贴标签
我想在今天早上建议，无论你已经跟随耶稣很久了，或者你只是第一次探索它，制造商和购买
者是唯一有权给你贴标签的人，他给你的标签是美好的，是上帝的杰作，你是他的杰作，有权
给你贴标签的人是他对你的评价，这就是我想邀请你做的事情。我想邀请你再次拿起你在标签
背面写的东西，我想邀请你替换你在标签背面写的字或词，我想邀请你用上帝--你的采购商对
你的评价来替换它，他给你的标签，也许它会像我的标签一样，而不是在背面写着不够，在我
的标签前面，现在写着足够，因为耶稣。
我不知道你的标签前面会说什么，但我们必须回答，用神对你的评价的真理来取代我们所相
信的这些变成标签的谎言，我最喜欢的作者是一个叫Henry Nowin的人，他是我迄今为止最喜
欢的一句话，我每天都对自己重复这句话，他说，关于标签，灵性的身份。
精神上的身份不是你做了什么，不是你有什么也不是别人对你的看法或评价 他用了这个标签
，我很喜欢，他说 你是被爱的人，是上帝的爱子和爱女。 也许对你们中的一些人来说，这就是
今天你们的标签前面需要写的东西因为这是神对你们的看法。 当他看到你时，他认为你是他
所爱的人 你可能会说，杰森，你在母亲节给我们讲了一个很好的小故事，这很好，但有什么大
不了的？
为什么这么重要？ 我明白了，有时我们被告知的谎言会成为我们的标签 变成了我们的标签，
这有点可爱，但为什么这对我来说是如此重要？ 这就是我为什么认为这是一件大事的原因因
为我注意到在我的生活中，也许你也在你的生活中看到了它
也不是别人对你的看法或评价 他用了这个标签，我很喜欢，他说 你是被爱的人，是上帝的爱
子和爱女。 也许对你们中的一些人来说，这就是今天你们的标签前面需要写的东西因为这是
神对你们的看法。 当他看到你时，他认为你是他所爱的人 你可能会说，杰森，你在母亲节给我
们讲了一个很好的小故事，这很好，但有什么大不了的? 也许你的标签上写的是哑巴，现在你
的标签前面可能写的是明智的，因为他，我不知道你的标签前面会写什么，但我们必须回答，
用神对你的评价的真理取代我们相信的这些谎言，变成我们持有的标签，我最喜欢的作者之一
是一个叫亨利-诺文的人，他是我迄今为止最喜欢的一句话，我每天都对自己重复这句话，他
说关于标签，他说这个屬靈的身份。
spiritual identity is not what you do it is not what you have and it's not what others think or
say about you he uses this label and I love it he says you are the Beloved the Beloved Sons
and Daughters of God.
屬靈的身份不是你做了什么，不是你拥有什么 也不是别人对你的看法和评价 他用了这个标签
，我很喜欢，他说 你是被爱的人，是上帝的爱子和爱女。
maybe for some of you that's what the front of your label needs to say today is the word
beloved because that's what God thinks of you when he sees you he sees you as his
beloved you might say Jason that's that's a nice little talk you've given us on Mother's Day
that's wonderful but what's the big deal why is this so important I get it sometimes the lies we
were told become the labels we hold that's kind of cute it Rhymes but why is this such a big
deal for me to do anything with here's why I think this is a big deal because I've noticed in
my life and perhaps you've seen it in your life
that when we carry around these labels these labels that we hold here's what we tend to do
we tend to take something in life and we put it on over the top that's not the real us but it's
kind of a a fake version of us as opposed to the real version of us so that we can cover up all
the labels that we've been carrying around like for me this vest it represents success
也许对你们中的一些人来说，这就是今天你们的标签前面需要写的东西 因为这是神对你们的
看法。当他看到你时，他认为你是他所爱的人 你可能会说，杰森，你在母亲节给我们讲了一个
很好的小故事，这很好，但有什么大不了的？为什么这么重要？ 我明白了，有时我们被告知
的谎言会成为我们的标签 变成了我们的标签，这有点可爱，但为什么这对我来说是如此重
要？这就是我为什么认为这是一件大事的原因 因为我注意到在我的生活中，也许你也在你的
生活中看到了它
当我们随身携带这些标签时，我们持有的这些标签 我们倾向于这样做，我们倾向于把生活中
的一些东西 我们把它贴在上面，这不是真正的我们 而是一种假的我们，而不是真实的我们 这
样我们就可以掩盖所有我们一直以来的标签了 比如对我来说，这件马甲代表着成功.
because I carry the label of not being good enough or not enough I've oftentimes put on the
best of success to cover up that label that I carried around there's actually a story of two
mums that I want to wrap up with today one mom she grew up in a home where she was told
she was useless and she was worthless and she would never amount to very much you
know what that Mom did for the rest of her life she put on a vest of constantly trying to prove
her Worth to everyone around her for the rest of her life and she was never the gift the full
gift that God intended for her to be for herself and those she loved because of this vest that
she had to carry there was another mom who when she was finishing up high school she
was trying to decide what to do next and she was thinking about going on to study in
University and there was a small comment made from one of her parents who kind of
encouraged her not to go to university but to just get into the workforce they never said it but
she took that comment as a lie that she wasn't quite smart enough to go to university so
because of that she went on to get a job then she met a guy and she married him and they
had three children and she raised those three children and as she was getting to the end of
raising those three children as they were getting ready to be done with school she finally
identified the LIE
and she finally took off the vest and she actually enrolled herself in University as a
40-something-year-old and she's now this is amazing part of the story she's now counseling
others to identify their lies and replace them with the truth
that Second Story by the way is the story of my wife who carried a lie a label of not being
smart enough being dumb most of her life until she discovered her true self not her fake self
not her false self but her true self and now she is a gift to the world that God intended her to
be and now she is a gift to all of those in her life that God put her on this planet to be here's
what's at stake what's at stake is you living a fake version of your life versus a real version of
your life that's what's at stake today
God has designed you to be his handiwork you are wonderfully made and I want to invite
you to step into the true self the real life that God has invited you to step into so that you can
be a gift to yourself and a gift to every person that God has put around you here's the bottom
line the bottom line is simply this when you change your labels that has the power to change
your life when you begin to change your labels it has the power to change your life when you
begin to see yourself as the person that God has created you to be that has the power to
change your life and the lives of those around you
so I want to invite us this morning in fact I'm going to invite the band to come up and they're
going to lead us in a song and the title of this song it's titled I am who you say I am it's a
powerful song and during this song If you haven't had a chance yet to contemplate the label
that God has given you to replace the lie that perhaps was told to you when you were young
I want to invite you during the playing of this song and the singing of this song to just take a
moment and say God what is the label you have given to me that needs to replace the the lie
that was told to me this morning
因为我带着 "不够好 "或 "不够 "的标签，所以我经常用最好的成功来掩盖我带着的标签，其实
今天我想用两个妈妈的故事来总结一下，一个妈妈她在一个家里长大，她被告知她是无用的，
她是没有价值的。她在一个家庭中长大，有人告诉她，她一无是处，她永远不会有什么出息，
你知道那个妈妈在她的余生中做了什么吗？
因为她不得不穿上这件马甲，所以她从来没有成为上帝为她准备的礼物，也没有成为她所爱
的人。
还有一个妈妈，当她完成高中学业时，她想决定下一步做什么。她正在考虑去大学学习，她的
父母中的一个人说了一句话，他鼓励她继续学习。她的父母之一鼓励她不要去上大学，而要
去工作。他们从来没有说过，但她认为这句话是一个谎言。她认为那是一个谎言，说她不够聪
明，不能上大学。所以她就去找了一份工作，然后她遇到了一个男人，她嫁给了他 他们有三个
孩子，她抚养这三个孩子，当她快要抚养完这三个孩子的时候 当她把这三个孩子养大到一定
程度时，当他们准备完成学业时，她终于发现了这个谎言
她最终脱下了马甲，她实际上是以40多岁的身份进入了大学。她在40多岁的时候进入了大学，
她现在是这个故事中令人惊讶的一部分。她现在正在为其他人提供咨询，以识别他们的谎言
并用真相取代它们。
這是我妻子的故事，她一生都带着谎言，带着不够聪明的标签，带着愚蠢的标签，直到她发现
了真正的自己，而不是假的自己，不是假的自己，而是真正的自己，现在她是上帝给她的礼物
，现在她是上帝让她在这个星球上成为的所有的人的礼物，这就是关键所在，关键在于你生活
在一个假的生命版本和一个真正的生命版本，这就是今天的关键所在。
上帝把你设计成他的作品，你是奇妙的，我想邀请你进入真正的自我，上帝邀请你进入的真实
生活，这样你就可以成为自己的礼物，成为上帝放在你身边的每个人的礼物，这是底线 底线是
简单的，当你改变你的标签时 就有能力改变你的生活，当你开始改变你的标签时，就有能力改
变你的生活。当你开始改变你的标签时，它就有能力改变你的生活，当你开始把自己看成是上
帝所创造的人时，它就有能力改变你的生活。有能力改变你的生活和你周围人的生活
所以我想在今天早上邀请大家，事实上我将邀请乐队上台，他们将带领我们唱一首歌，这首歌
的标题是《我是你说的那个人》，这是一首强有力的歌，在这首歌中，如果你还没有机会思考上
帝给你的标签 替换你年轻时被告知的谎言，我想邀请你在播放这首歌和唱这首歌时，花点时
间说，上帝，你给我的标签是什么，需要替换今天早上对我说的谎言。
let me pray for us
father I thank you I thank you for preserving the ancient words of King David I thank you for
preserving that poem that reminds us this morning that you call us wonderful thank you Lord
for the Masterpiece that you have created in each of the lives that are sitting in front of me
today that are watching online God I thank you that you have created us to do good work I
pray that we would take off the vest covering up the labels that we try to hide I pray that we
would replace the labels with the truth of what you've said about us so that we can be a gift
to ourselves but more importantly a gift
to the world because you've created us to do good work and I pray this blessing upon
everyperson listening today in the powerful name of Jesus Amen
thank you
让我为我们祈祷
神啊，我感谢你，感谢你保留了大卫王古老的话语，感谢你保留了这首诗，提醒我们今天早上
你称我们为美好的人，感谢主，感谢你在今天坐在我面前的每个人的生命中创造的杰作，感谢
你的在线观看。我感谢你，你创造了我们来做善事，我祈祷我们能脱下遮盖我们试图隐藏的标
签的马甲，我祈祷我们能用你所说的关于我们的真理来取代这些标签，这样我们就能成为我们
自己的礼物，但更重要的是成为礼物
因为你创造我们是为了做善事，我祈求这个祝福在每一个 今天我以耶稣大能的名义为每一位
听众祈祷，阿门。
谢谢
